Blaming others is something we were taught as a child. A quick fix or a possible escape route from taking responsibility as a group or as an individual. We use it at school, at work, in families, in relationships, in our neighbourhood. Somehow it can feel quite good to point the finger when in fact, each time you point the finger, that same hand of yours has 3 fingers pointing back at yourself.
I found this post (pasted below) about opening your perspective during the current worldwide Shift in Conciousness. It’s on Ronald Head’s website http://ronahead.com I assume he channelled it as it credits no one else. There’s a great little personal development question in there to use when we look at the world at large and all the disastrous things that appear on the media performed by groups of the human race, be they of a certain religion, country, interest or wealth group.
Rather than pointing the finger and say “what are they doing and why?”
ask yourself “what are we doing and why?”
By doing asking on behalf of the Human race you lose the separation which keeps us all in conflict.
The article also advises to not blame the actor but look at the act. Some of us are called upon to do a specific job via our intuition. It may be the role that is nasty, shocking or illegal, it might be the role of a victim. Whatever it is it will highlight something that is in our current way of thinking or way of laws or systems which does not take everyone or everything into consideration.
As a result of that act, we can question and debate the way we do things, the way we treat people and can change the old systems which are out of date.
What are the things that stand out in your mind as things that “they” are doing right now?
I’ve said this so many times on the blog here Shakespeare’s words “All the world’s a stage
and all the men and women merely players”
If you were to play one of the roles highlighted in the media at the moment and you were a professional actor, you would need to make the deeds justifiable in your own mind. Truly! Not like some child’s cartoon “Nya a ah. I am a baddie” but truly believable.
What would need to run through your mind to decide this was a good idea?
Obviously there are times when the role requires something that wasn’t planned consciously, it was just an intuitive thing to do. Like the photo of the man with the shopping bags standing in front of a tank preventing its progress. He didn’t think before he went to the shops “By golly, I know what I’ll do on the way home.” but he would have in his mind a very strong belief that would cause him to put his life on the line like that. Your job as an actor is to imagine what that belief might be.
What if you were a very rich person who found a way to manipulate the situation to give yourself a major advantage over every one else? What if you were covering your face and waving a black flag carrying a suicide bomb? You have to have some very strong beliefs to be prepared to do that.
What if it the reason you do such dramatic things wasn’t for the reason the media lead their audience to believe? What if you were trying to do everything in your power to draw attention to your message which the media consistently altered to something completely different? How frustrating would that be?
I’m not saying this is the case. I am saying this is a possibility.
Then, you look into the role of someone running the media to find their own personal agenda and the beliefs that justify such meddling.
The more you take yourself into each role playing out on the stage, the more you begin to understand why each feels justified in their actions. Then there is less blame and pointing the finger, it’s more about understanding each role. From there you can do much better in finding a peaceful solution.
If you thought that one role was the “baddie” then all you could really do is declare war on them. Then their son will seek revenge on your character in the follow up movie and you will have a never ending series of war or conflict movies where no one ever listens to the other side.
This is not just about the media. You can look at the conflicts within your own circle of influence. In your home, your family, your workplace, your neighbourhood. Practice looking into each role for a deeper understanding and it will dramatically change your reaction.
Annabelle
Rise up! – The Council
From Ronald Head
Ah! Do you see how very powerful your words can be? We do not speak of an uprising. We are speaking of raising your own state of consciousness. And the actual topic we wish to address is the turmoil that you find yourselves in at this time.
Now without making a list – we do not wish to make this a ‘downer’, as you call it – we wish to talk about the fact that there are a great many things happening around you that you truly find disturbing. And we know that a great many of you are burdened with the perennial ‘WHY’. There could be many discussions of why this or that happened, and in fact, there are such discussions every day. Your media hardly lets you think about anything else. But those discussions do not reach the underlying cause that we want to ask you to examine.
We want you to look at this as a collection of events, not as a series of separate events. And we want you to think of yourselves as us, not as they or them. Think ‘what are we doing and why’ not ‘what are they doing and why’. Because when you are able to do that, you will acquire an entirely new perspective.
There are many levels of consciousness. There are individuals. There are families and groups. Cities have consciousness, as do states, countries, continents, species, and worlds. And the list goes on. There is a great change taking place that involves all of these on this planet, indeed this entire sector of your galaxy. And that is the context we wish to explore.
You have determined to rise up. You wish to reach a higher state of consciousness than you have been experiencing for the last many thousands of years. Good for you. But much of what your consciousness is carrying with it, much of what you think you know, and much of what you are sure is true, what you believe about yourselves, cannot exist in those higher levels.
This is not news to most of you. What you must see in order to understand this conversation, is that you will not throw that baggage overboard if you have not acknowledged its existence. And we do not mean ‘look at what they do’. We mean ‘look at what we do’. Once it becomes ‘look at what we do’ it will instantly change. There will be an unavoidable rise in your consciousness. Why? Because, in your hearts you know you are not that. If ‘they’ do it, you have made it separate. And you cannot change ‘them’.
We are seeing momentous changes to compassion, to empathy, to love. Yes, some do not choose this yet. But by far the greatest number do. And it is changing you.
Also, please remember that from your current points of view, you cannot see whether or not an individual has a contract to serve by bringing certain things to the attention of the collective. Better to assume they have than to condemn. We know this is difficult at first. But, as we have stated before, you need to learn to separate the act from the actor. There is no need to condone any action.
And one last thing you might wish to consider. All of the above means you are making great and rapid progress. The evidence of that is still just beginning to emerge, but it is there and it will be unmistakable very soon. And the joy of seeing such evidence will spur you forward even faster.
May you see in yourselves much to confirm for you these words. And know we are never separate from you. Good day.
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